The Red Flag Diaries: This is Not a Romance Memoir

Some red flags you spot right away. Others sneak in disguised as charm, romance, or “street smarts.”This is not a love story.

It’s a memoir about ignoring every warning sign, collecting disasters like souvenirs, and finally realizing escape hatches aren’t just for other people. Told with dark humor, sharp hindsight, and zero sugarcoating, The Red Flag Diaries drags toxic relationships out into the daylight and dares you to laugh at the absurdity.If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why did I stay?” or wished you could go back and shake your younger self by the shoulders, this book is for you.

Equal parts cautionary tale and comedy special, it’s proof that even the worst relationships can leave behind one thing worth keeping: a hell of a story.